I wasn’t always someone who believed in any of this. I came to Family Constellations as a sceptic I walked into that room with nothing but curiosity. And it blew my world completely open. That was twelve years ago. I haven’t been the same since, and I mean that in the best possible way.

I didn’t find this work in a workshop brochure. I found it in the middle of my own family’s chaos patterns that had repeated for generations, dynamics nobody spoke about but everyone was shaped by. Over twelve years I participated in over 50 constellation processes as a client. I watched things shift that I had long accepted as permanent. I have seen my parents change deeply, and the ripples reach back to my grandparents.

I take preparation seriously, perhaps unusually so. I travelled to China to train with Shaolin warrior monks not to fight, but because I understood something most healing practitioners never address: the body is a vessel. The quality of what you can hold for another person is determined entirely by the capacity you have built. I wanted to be able to sit with the heaviest family systems suicide, exclusion, inherited shame without collapsing.

I have now facilitated over 100 constellation processes with clients across six countries. I have sat with estrangements lasting decades, financial patterns repeating across three generations, property that would not sell, relationships that would not open, success that collapsed at the same invisible ceiling again and again. And I have watched the field move. Every single time.

I am not here to interpret your family for you. I am here to hold a space so precisely that what is true in your system can show itself without force, without agenda. The rest belongs to the work.